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One of the most valuable lessons I've learned from my 91-year-old mother
One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned from my 91-year-old mother is the power of attitude when faced with life’s challenges, big or small. Despite a series of diagnoses affecting her from head to toe, she consistently maintains a positive outlook and finds the silver lining even in the darkest moments. Now, I am striving to embody the same mentality.
Last week at the United States Dance Championships, I ended up fracturing my second metatarsal (long bone of the second toe). While I’m no stranger to the physical demands of this sport – having been struck in the head, side and shin, and even trampled during competitions – this was different. It was a matter of slight misjudgment on my part, leading to a swift and forceful impact with significant consequences.
With the Ms. Senior America pageant just three weeks away, the fracture is a major setback. Dr. Thomas Novella, who treats top ballerinas and athletes, reviewed a video of my talent performance and pointed out the challenges: jumping, spinning and performing in heels. I anticipated his conclusion and acknowledged that I wouldn’t be performing this number. Dr. Novella confirmed that I’d need a minimum of 6-8 weeks to recover, with a gradual return to activity and no immediate return to performing on the ball of my foot. It will be a process.
Given the current situation, here is my revised plan: -I have surrendered my Ms. Connecticut Senior America 2024 title, with the first runner-up stepping in to represent Connecticut at the National Pageant from September 29 to October 4.
-I will not be competing in American Smooth/ballroom for the rest of 2024.
-I’ve adjusted my plans to live and heal in NYC while commuting back to Greenwich for my real estate work.
I am thankful that the Ms. Senior America organization and the Connecticut chapter have invited me to represent Connecticut in 2025. Meanwhile, I will continue to support Girls With Impact , @FairfieldBellarmine, Teach for America/Connecticut and Parkinson Body and Mind.
Thank you to everyone who has supported me this summer through preparations and a demanding competition season. I look forward to coming back stronger in Spring 2025. In the meantime, I deeply appreciate the help, encouragement, and caring as I heal this fall.